I'm one of those girls that spends a lot of time trying to figure things out. Trying to figure out what outfit to wear. If a boy likes me back. What that comment the girl at work said to you, meant. But recently I've been spending less and less time trying to figure things out. Sometimes things just happen. You can't be prepared and you can't plan for them. That friend who's mad that you don't want to follow along with her plans on a Saturday? done with it. The boy that keeps you guessing but never gives you the answers you need? moving on. I've been choosing to spend less and less time with people who are selfish towards me. If you don't want to have a functioning two way relationship, then I'm done giving it my time. This may sound selfish, or harsh but sometimes growing up means you need to cut people out.
Sometimes god give's you people who are basically, an extension of yourself. Who get you without having to explain every detail. Who have experienced things that almost mirror your own experiences. They make you feel like they truly care about you. THESE are the people you hold onto. Whether its a new friend, a cousin, these are the people you devote your time to. The ones that you should take the time to figure out.
Anchors away,
Samantha
